Frequently Asked Questions

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Q: What’s SM / BDSM?
A: SM, as a kind of sexual foreplay, is essentially a role-playing game in the bedroom, one will be the master ,the other one will be the slave. SM stands for Sadism & Masochism, which means enjoying giving or receiving pain. You may also hear it referred to as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism & Masochism).

Q: Do I have to pay to register?
A: Masters (Sugar Daddies) need to pay, Slaves (Sugar Babies) do not.

Q: Do I have to go to Australia when I join your club?
A: You don’t have to. You can continue to live in your current country, go school or work as you do now. When there a dating appointment, we’ll let you know by e-mail or phone.

Q: I live in XXXX and cannot travel overseas. Can I let the Master (Sugar Daddy) come to my place?
A: Yes, you can. But you will have less chances to get dating than others who can go abroad.

Q: I live in Sydney, can I visit your office?
A: Yes, please fill out the Application Form, if you have got through the first round of selection, we will arrange the interview.

Q: Where is your Masters (Sugar Daddies) come from?
A: Masters (Sugar Daddies) register in our club are from Europe, America and Australia, they can be aristocrats, enterprisers, bankers, politicians, lawyers, managers or wealthy retirees. Most of which are Caucasians and very few Asians. They are often well respected in public and generous. Their age range from 18-70, average 40s.

Q: Can I only chose to date those whom I like?
A: Yes, you can give a simple description of whom you are willing to date at application (age, nationality…). When we introduce the actual Masters (Sugar Daddies), you can choose based on their detailed profile.

Q: Can I see the man’s photo before dating? If I don’t like him, can I say no?
A: Yes, you can. We provide you the Master (Sugar Daddy)’s profiles (some including photos) before arranging any dates. If you don’t like his profile, you can refuse to date before meeting him.

Q: I only want to date with American (European, Australian, Asian, young men, middle-aged men, old men……), is this possible?
A: Yes, please notify this at your application.

Q: I do not want to date with American (European, Australian, Asian, young men, middle-aged men, old men……), is this possible?
A: Yes, please notify this at your application.

Q: How long can I get a reply after I submit my application?
A: If you have registered with 5 photos and mobile #, we will response within 2 business days.

Q: After I register, when could I start my first dating?
A: If you have registered with high quality photos and chosen enough SM games, your first date will be arranged within 2 weeks.

Q: When will I be paid after my dating?
A: The club will wire the remuneration on the next business day after dating. For more details, please refer to: Remuneration.

Q: Can I get money before my dating?
A: No.

Q: I’m under 18 years old, can I join your club?
A: No, you must be over 18 years old (or the legal age in your country).

Q: Does your SM Dating have an age ceiling?
A: No.

Q: Who will arrange / pay for my flight for dating?
A: The Club will arranges / pays for it.

Q: Do I have to pay for my everyday expenses during dating?
A: No, you don’t have to. Your Master (Sugar Daddy) pays for all everyday expenses. You will receive all of your remuneration.

Q: If I go for long term dating, what shall I do with my study?
A: You can choose to study at a local institution where the dating will take place, your tuition fees will be on the Master (Sugar Daddy).

Q: If I go for long term Fostering, will the Master (Sugar Daddy) be with me every day?
A: This will depend.

Q: While dating, shall we use condoms for sexual behaviors?
A: Yes, you must use a condom for sex.

Q: How many photos will you need, can I provide fewer photos and make up more when I am accepted
A: At least 5. Yes.

Q: I have a lot of photos, but cannot send by email. I can send you by Skype or you can find all my photos on this link:, you will be shocked how pretty I am….
A: Sorry, we cannot accept photos by Skype or click the link you provide. Please submit your photos to:

Q: I sent 5 photos when I submitted the Application Form, why are you asking me to submit more?
A: If we think more or different photos will improve your chances or opportunities for dating, we will suggest you to provide them. If you are satisfied with your current photos, you don’t have to provide new ones. We recommend you to provide as many good photos as possible to create more chances to date with high class gentlemen.

Q: What photos are preferred by Masters (Sugar Daddies)?
A: It depends on you. If you are young or virgin, a natural style is good. It’s great if they see what you are like in your everyday life. Make some photos in your class. If you are mature and adult, put on some make-up and dress well. If you are a celebrity, photos from your movies or TV appearances are good.

Q: I know someone who looks just like me. Can I use her photo?
A: We’re afraid not. You have to provide your own photos.

Q: I have videos of me in addition to photos. Would you like these?
A: Please provide them to us. Videos are better than photos, so you can get more chances to date.

Q: Do I need to provide SM photos?
A: Yes, you’d better provide them if you have.

Q: Can I mask my face/head in the photo?
A: For the normal photos, no, you can’t. But if they’re nude or SM photos, you can.

Q: I am afraid that my photos will be released on the internet…
A: We consider our ladies and gentlemen’s privacy to be very important. We have strict codes to protect your privacy. Your photos will not be released on the internet. Masters (Sugar Daddies) have to pay to see your photos, that means in our system even our Masters (Sugar Daddies) can not see your photos easily.

Q: If I find a lover in future or I do not wish to go for anymore dates, can you give my profile and photos back or destroy them?
A: Yes, definitely.

Q: Will those who participate in the SM playing be violent?
A: SM is a sexual role-playing game, it is not related to violence. In fact, those who like SM playing are more gentle than the general population.

Q: Would I be expected to have sexual intercourse? The BDSM I enjoy is more of servitude, role play, chastity, whipping/spanking, bondage, tasks, etc.. I don’t mind the use of sex toys but I’m not really into sexual intercourse. Would that be a problem?
A: At our club you can “set” your own conditions for everything, including games, prices and whether you are willing to have sex. However, you should do your best to make yourself attractive, because every Sugar Daddy will have many girls competing.
In SM Dating and Fostering, around 30% Sugar Daddies don’t need vaginal sex (but enjoy oral sex very much). Usually they are really dominant and enjoy dating and fostering natural submissives only.

Q: I’d like to apply for SM Dating, can I say no to painful games? I have seen some SM videos before, they showed a whip and candle play…I’m scared.
A: You can choose what you can do. When you apply SM Dating, firstly you select games which on the SM Game List that you can do. If you are afraid of some of the hard play, you can choose some easy/light plays such as kneeling or role play. You do not have to choose any sort of play that you do not want to do.

Q: I’m a celebrity, can I make an anonymous application?
A: Yes, you can. We will make special arrangement for you to protect your privacy.

Q: How to write my resume?
A: There are no rules, but usually you can write about your SM experience and your nationality, family, study, occupation, hobby, and personality. 

Q: How can I increase my dating chance?
A: Choosing more SM games and providing high quality photos will improve your chance of being dated.

Q: I live with my boyfriend and might not be convenient with phone calls. Can you only call in the morning/noon/night?
A: Yes

Q: I have applied for many times but why no any reply?
A: All genuine applications with 10 or more photos will be replied to within 1-2 business days. Those who use other people’s photos, provide less than 10 photos, or lack a contact number, will not be replied to.

Q: I have submitted a genuine application and attached 10 photos, I have talked with you in phone, you said you have already replied an email. But so far I have not received any email.
A: If you have submitted a genuine application and received no reply after 2 business days, please check your junk mail folder. To assure the successful communication, please add our domain “” into the Safe List.
Another possibility is that your used Hotmail, Outlook or email service. You can’t receive our reply because they will filter out the mails from us. In such situation, we suggest you to register a Gmail account.

Q: Are you a legally registered club?
A: Yes, #1 SM Dating club is legally registered in Australia.