Steps: from Dating to Relationship

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The male members (BDSM Sugar Daddies) registered with #1 SM Dating Club are well established gentlemen with solid economic and social status. They are mature, stable and responsible, and they usually cautious before establish a long term BDSM relationship. Before they commit, most men like to make initial contact with a lady and ensure they are comfortable and relaxed with her.

Therefore, our job is to create an opportunity for a wealthy gentleman and friendly young lady to meet and get to know each other. Once you have met, we guide the two sides to really enter the roles of “Sugar Daddy” and “Sugar Baby”. The goal of everyone involved is to help generous men and charming women establish an ongoing relationship that they enjoy and want to continue. Through long-term interaction, if it is your fate and deeper attraction develops, together you might naturally fall in love or even marriage.

Test Dating

The Masters usually dates the Slaves once or twice. If both of them have enjoyed their time together, the Master may become a Sugar Daddy and start to sponsor or foster the slave. This gives them a stable, longer term relationship that they can use to explore their SM relationship further.

For your initial contact with a Sugar Daddy, we have three types of “Test Dating”: “Virtual Dating”, “Half-day Dating” and “Full-day Dating”. The “Test Dating” can be repeated several times. After understanding each other for a while, they can start long-term Sugar Baby – Sugar Daddy Relationship if both parties have intentions.

1, Virtual Dating

The Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby have a video meeting through the Internet. After one or a few times of video meeting, you will get to know each other. If both parties intend, they can move on to the next step.

2, Half-day Dating

The Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby meet in Baby’s city for a few hours. After one or a few times of meeting, you will get to know each other. If both parties intend, they can move on to the next step.

Because each person’s situation is different (a student, a teacher, a nurse, a housewife…), the content of “Half-day Dating” of each Sugar Baby could be different. When a lady applies, we will discuss with her the specific details of the “Half-day Dating”: the price, the length of the dating (6, 8, 10, 12 hours…), the start and end time (daytime only or nighttime…), the content of the dating (just drinking coffee or other …), and so on.

3,Full-day Dating

The Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby enjoy a short holiday together for one or a few days to get to know each other. This might be in the Sugar Daddy’s home or a 5 star hotel.

You will live together, go out to see the view, dine together, and get to know each other. If you get along, now is the perfect time to establish a longer relationship.

Sugar Daddy – Sugar Baby Relationship

Your relationship will have a fixed financial aid and emotional agreement between the Sugar Daddy and the Sugar Baby. Packages start from one week, but are usually for months or years. Long-term live-in relationships can easily lead to marriage.

We normally recommend either of the three types of Sugar Daddy – Sugar Baby Relationship that are described below, but if you or your Sugar Daddy are interested in a different relationship we are happy to assist.

1, Sponsorship Relationship

This is a lover style relationship, where two adults enjoy each other’s company but still live separately. The Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby date regularly like normal lovers, either meeting at someone’s home or at an agreed rendezvous. It is important to remember that although you may be living alone, your Sugar Daddy will still expect you to be faithful to him. This is not an escort service; your Daddy is literally sponsoring you to be his close, personal friend and lover.

Here are some of the most common examples of this that we have seen:

The Sugar Baby is studying at university and Sugar Daddy often comes over to visit her
The Sugar Daddy lives at home and the Sugar Baby comes to meet him regularly
The Sugar Daddy provides a place for Sugar Baby to live alone, and keeps her as a “secret lover”, visiting her whenever he is able
For Sugar Daddies that travel a lot for work, we have also had requests for sponsoring a lover that lives in the city he visits for work

2, Fostering Relationship

Just like a husband and wife, or long term couple, the Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby live together at the Sugar Daddy’s home. They will travel together, have holidays, and do all of the things that make life fun, and now they have someone to enjoy these experiences with.

This is our most common arrangement, and our clients have had many different reasons to seek it:

A Sugar Baby studying abroad gets support, somewhere to live, spending money and the safety of a good home.
A Sugar Daddy meets a woman who genuinely cares for him, without needing thousands of hours on dating services.
A Sugar Baby who doesn’t want to be stuck in an office gets the chance to create social life for a gentleman who is otherwise too busy.

3, Tuition & Home-stay Relationship

This is a typical Sugar Daddy – Sugar Baby style relationship. The Sugar Daddy makes an upfront payment of one semester’s tuition for Sugar Baby (a student) and provides her accommodation for the semester. The Sugar Baby will live with the Sugar Daddy for the semester, but she still has the freedom to study, work and make friends (go dating). This arrangement is suitable for the foreign students who are seeking the financial support and personal security of living in an established home.

Before commencing your home-stay we will ensure that you and your Sugar Daddy are in clear agreement whether the arrangement includes sex or not.


When a Master (Sugar Daddy) find his match, the Slave (Sugar Baby) will be informed with the Master (Sugar Daddy)’s information. If she agrees, the club will collect the fees (dating fee, airfare, etc.) from the Master (Sugar Daddy) and arrange the date. After dating, the compensation will be paid to the Slave (Sugar Baby).